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Beyond Muscles: A Different Kind of Massage

When people come to see me, they often describe their bodies in mechanical terms: shoulders that feel “rock solid,” a neck that’s “frozen,” or hips that seem “locked.” It’s common to hear about muscles being “tight” or “like concrete.” Along with this usually comes the expectation that I’ll prescribe a “deep tissue” or “firm pressure” massage to force the tension out.

But the truth is, I don’t see the body as something to be hammered, stretched, or pushed into submission. Our bodies are far more complex—and far more intelligent—than that.

Shifting the Focus

It’s easy to think of our bodies as a system of levers, pulleys, and ropes. And while there’s some truth to that analogy, it misses the bigger picture. Muscles don’t tighten themselves. They’re told what to do by the nervous system.

That means lasting change isn’t about “fixing” muscles from the outside—it’s about helping the nervous system feel safe enough to let them release.

Listening Inward

Take a moment with me: what can you sense in your body right now?

Often, our attention jumps straight to something obvious—hunger, an ache, the chill in the room. But beneath those louder signals, there are subtler ones:

• The rise and fall of your breath

• The steady rhythm of your heartbeat

• The pressure of the chair or floor supporting you

• The quiet cues of tension in your jaw, or the stretch of your skin and fascia

• The gentle tug of fatigue, or the hum of energy

  
  

This ability to notice our inner landscape is called interoception. It’s how the brain interprets the body’s signals—and it plays a huge role in how we feel, physically and emotionally.

How I Work

My massage approach is rooted in this awareness. I use variable pressures and a host of different massage techniques, always in conversation with your body, to invite the nervous system to explore different states—relaxation versus tension, stillness versus movement.

Instead of overwhelming the body with sheer force, I offer sensations that the nervous system can safely respond to. This allows it to gently recalibrate, bringing muscles back into balance in a way that’s sustainable and deeply restorative.

Why Deeper Pressure Isn’t Always Better

Many people assume that deeper pressure equals better results—that if I press hard enough, I can “break up” knots. While that might feel satisfying in the moment, it often triggers the body’s stress response. Muscles may let go briefly, but once the adrenaline fades, the old tension patterns return.

By contrast, when pressure is varied and supportive, the nervous system doesn’t feel under threat. Instead, it has space to shift out of “high alert” and into its natural rest-and-repair state. That’s where true healing happens.

Trust, Safety, and Balance

For this approach to work, safety and trust are essential. My aim is not to push you through pain, but to create conditions where your body feels secure enough to soften on its own.

I watch for subtle signs—slower breathing, an easier heartbeat, the release of muscle tone—that show me your system is moving into balance. In this process, I am not a mechanic “fixing” parts, but a facilitator helping your body reconnect with its own intelligence.

A Modern Understanding of Massage

This way of working aligns with modern neuroscience, which shows how closely the nervous system and body interact. It shifts massage from being just a mechanical fix to a practice of connection, awareness, and recalibration.

So next time you think about asking for “more pressure,” I invite you to try a different path. A massage that meets your body where it is, supports your nervous system, and allows change to unfold naturally.

You may be surprised by how deeply soothing—and effective—this gentler approach can be.